Poyo

Salam...

Tiba2 terfikir ttg tajuk ni since one of my friends yg deeply down meluahkn perasaan stress dia kt his fb. Lps tu dia ckp sikap dia tu poyo je. For me, tk slh utk dia meluahkn perasaan kt fb, better dari simpan dan stress sorg2.

Hrmm...sebut pasal poyo, bila sy reflect (muhasabah) blk, perlu juga sikap tu terutamanya utk project engineer mcm sy. Poyo jika sy blh terjemahkn maksudnya 'over'. Sometimes kita perlu poyo in doing our tasks. Buat benda yg org lain tk terfikir utk buat. Cthnya poyo in checking in details, poyo in asking too many questions, poyo in pushing contractors, poyo in dealing with peoples in order to build their trust and confidence.

Kita sometimes terlalu fikir apa yg org lain akn kata/pandang kpd setiap tindakan kita. Kalo tnye soalan byk2, query contractors byk2, takut contractors ckp "Bodohnya engineer ni or poyo (over) nye engineer ni". Perasaan ini yg saya selalu rasa sbb sy dibesarkn utk terlalu memikirkn pndangan org....rasanya itu culture yg perlu kita ubah dlm masyarakat kita.

End up, we keep something to ourselves and we did not learn anything from that project/task because we pretend to know what we dont know. Sikap buat 'dek' ini bukan syarikat P je yg rugi, contractors pun rugi sbb they also did not improve in term of their services because we as client did not query much, didnt complain much. Thus, both syarikat P and contractors will be no development in term of products and working culture years by years.

Cuma contractors if they lucky, they will untung in term of money becoz they will charge more for last minutes changes, project delay and etc. However, is money is everything? Money is not everything, duit yg haram akan dijudge oleh Allah diakhirat nnti. Jd, we regardless of who, we need to improve our working culture and we need to teach each other the correct working culture. Come on Gen Y, we are agent of change for the world betterment..:).

Malu tidak bertempat itu dilarang dlm Islam. Malah Rasulullah s.a.w sendiri menggalakkan para sahabat/sahabiahnya bertanyakn soalan walaupun soalan2 itu bersifat peribadi seperti ttg haid dan sebagainya. Jadi, blhla kita utk bersikap poyo (over) sdikit in order to get our work done. Sometimes if kita tk poyo, org tk rasa our urgency...:). Mungkin sy blh katakn di sini, kita dibyr gaji utk bersikap poyo...hehe.

Poyo is one of the good attitude in pursuing the changes.

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Salam semua,

2013 just started about 3 weeks. My ages will be added one more year. Hrm...i am now more matured in controlling my emotion, anger and sad due to vast experience in life. However, my skills that I love to have are not added, such as good in English writing and communication, cooking skills, sewing skills, Quran recitation. I am also read less books in these 6 months. Huhu.....

End of last year, I was extensively involved in offshore works. I think i dont want to do it anymore starting from February onwards. I would like to do something that physically suitable for woman....office works +  things that I passionate to do such as reading, writing and sewing.

I probably will fail again in this year technical assessment due to not so much exposure with site works. Lets it be if that so. However, my instinct said i will pass if i work hard by studying and making a lot of technical notes like what Jang Geum do in the drama...:)

I cant wait to work in Kerteh soon...huhu. Why ah? May be i cannot stand anymore work pressure in Miri. Thus, I would like to open new book in new place + I'm a good woman for my family. Living in Kerteh will make me near to my family.

I am really tired, need to sleep. Esk blk KL, yeay.

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Bitter taste eh?

Salam...

Tonite I have another idiom that sounds "Being an engineer in upstream sector of oil&gas company is bitter taste that I need to swallow whatever it is. Dont give up easily. I would like to be like a flower seed that blossoms even when I'm thrown into ice...:)

Photo of flowers in my lawn. Beautiful isnt it?

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Life Tips #1

Sometimes you feel you do not want to get up from your bed, you want to continue sleeping and dreaming. My advice to you is you need to force yourself to wake up, pray Subuh, take shower and you will feel refresh/energize. Do not let yourself dream in the sleep for too long but dream more when you are awake.

Sometimes you feel stress, hrmm...just take a walk outside, green garden is better if you have it nearby. Feel the fresh air....inhale and exhale. I would like to practice more walking since now it is new year already.New year means new spirit.

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